Why do i always just blow off my boyfriends? take them for granted?

The answer is simple... Because you haven't found the right one yet :) I used to be the same as you, would think someone was pretty cool, then get bored with them, do anything to avoid them. Usually thought after that he was always nice to me, why didn't I feel "hot" for him? Well the guy I'm with now is the right one, we have been married for a few years and everytime I see him, I think Hmmm-mmm how lucky am I! And when his name comes up on my mobile it sends a chill (a good one!) down my spine. When you find the right one you will accept all his cuddles and kisses and compliments and won't be turned off once! Good luck and hang in there :)